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This post comes from 20-something college student and writer named Red. Red walks the walk and offers a great resource to emulate if you have the desire to get your financial situation on track. Attaining financial independence is a significant goal for many minimalists. Follow Red’s progress, tips, and experiences towards living debt free at http://girlwithredballoon.blogspot.com/.

Getting Your (Financial) House in Order

Anyone who has ever gone through the process of decluttering knows that it can be a gut-wrenching experience. Prioritizing your possessions, deciding what stays and what goes, and then making the conscious effort to not bring any more clutter into your home? It’s never as easy as you think it will be.

Getting your financial house in order is a lot like getting your actual house in order. Though neither are painless, they’re both instrumental in creating a sustainable life that actually aligns with your values.

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First, it’s important to decide why you want to get your house in order. Don’t do it because an “expert” on Good Morning America says you should. Decide what ends you hope to achieve.

For me, the immediate reason was that I needed more space in my apartment for my boyfriend. That snowballed into donating DVDs I had watched a hundred times because I knew there were better ways to spend my time.

And you know what? There were also better places to spend my money. Once I felt the freedom of not owning things for the sake of owning them, I knew I wanted more.

I canceled my tanning bed membership. I began grocery shopping to save money on food. I used the library for all books and DVDs.

My goal was debt freedom. I wanted to pay off all credit cards and follow that up by paying off all of my student loans. I knew the freedom that came with not having debt would allow me to focus on things I really loved – specifically travel. It would also afford me the opportunity to do lower-paying work that I was passionate about because I wouldn’t need $400 each month for a debt payment.

Before doing anything else, get your reasons down on paper. Whether it’s to save up for a house down payment, travel, clothes, or even just living without creditors calling you three times a day, you’ll need these goals as reminders to keep you motivated.

Track your spending and create a budget. Ah, now we get to the grunt work of getting your financial house in order. Have you ever listed out your possessions on paper to give you a better idea of what you have? A possessions inventory is a great way to help us realize what all we have. Suddenly, we see that we have five pairs of black pants and 12 pairs of flip flops. It makes the decision to donate or sell our things a lot easier.

A budget operates in much the same way. First, track your spending for 30 days. I recommend using your debit card because it’s often easier to track expenses through online banking than through cash and paper receipts.

Review your spending for the month. Does every expense represent your priorities? If you’re spending $400 a month eating at McDonald’s even though one of your priorities is to eat healthy or get out of debt, you’re probably not using your money wisely.

Your money should be used to represent your values. If it isn’t doing that, it’s time to make some changes. And if you’re spending more than you earn in a month, you definitely want to make some changes quickly!

Create a realistic budget by first listing out all of your monthly expenses. These should include your rent or mortgage, utilities, Internet/cable/phone service, cell phone service, water, insurance, etc. Then you’ll want to create separate entries for things like groceries, gasoline, entertainment, charity, debt payments, etc.

When I say “be realistic,” I mean there’s no need to give yourself only $50 for entertainment in a month if your tracking revealed that you spend $200. Don’t push yourself too hard in your first month of budgeting. You don’t want to equate “budget” with “punishment.”

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Find areas to cut back. The easiest way to put extra money to your debt is to find the extra money in your budget. There are other alternatives, like getting a second job or getting a raise through work, but I find cutting my monthly expenses is the most painless way to find extra cash for debt and other priorities.

For me, the first thing to go was a tanning package. Then I cut the expensive cable. After all, most TV shows are available online. Netflix is another low-cost alternative to cable.

Maybe you can go without Internet because your job allows you the freedom to read a few blogs and do your online banking. Maybe you can cut your restaurant eating back to four times a month instead of eight.

Research better deals on insurance. Get a roommate or move into a smaller house or apartment. Negotiate a better interest rate on your credit cards. Try to find free alternatives to the costliest of your entertainment expenses, like checking out a DVD for free from your library instead of paying $5 for one at Blockbuster.

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Keep your eye on the prize and set small goals for yourself. When anyone in our lives approaches us about declutting their home, what is the first thing we usually tell them? “Start small. Don’t overwhelm yourself by thinking you have to do everything right now. Do one corner of your garage every weekend until it’s done.”

The same is true for budgeting and paying down debt. Don’t beat yourself up because it seems like paying off debt takes such a long time. You didn’t get into this mess in a matter of days. You won’t get out of it that quickly either.

Getting your financial house in order is about changing behavior. It may take years to correct, but you will get there.

Celebrate small achievements, like getting your daily accrued interest down to a certain point or only spending $100 on alcohol in a month when you usually spend $200. These are not insignificant accomplishments. Be proud of the progress you’re making!

And know that, like minimalism, financial discipline is something a lot of the people around you simply won’t understand. They won’t understand why you want to save up cash for that TV when you could put it on your credit card. They won’t like that you turn down their offer to go out for the third night in a row because your debt payment is more important.

Remember when you wrote down your reasons for getting your finances together? Refer to it often. This path isn’t always the easiest to walk, but the rewards are oh-so-wonderful.

t’s very informative and interesting to look at the different methods and perspectives people utilize when it comes to minimalism and simple living.

I love witnessing how people decide to select the principles contained in minimalism to live a life focused on freedom.

This is the first post of  the Minimalist Perspective Series that focuses on the other people, just like you, who use minimalism  to choose the essential and eliminate the rest. I hope the following Q & A is informative, interesting, and fun for you to read.

Minimalist Perspective Series Subject: Tony B. from the blog Regards From the Balcony.

 

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Q: How long have you been actively living a minimalist lifestyle?

A: Well, I don’t really consider myself a minimalist. By most definitions of minimalism I’m not minimalist. I don’t strive to live with a particular number of items. I own a house and car (currently). I have quite a few books, DVDs, sports equipment, and camping/hiking gear. I don’t really label myself as a minimalist or even a simple liver. My mindset is to pursue quality of life and freedom, and certain actions that I’ve taken along the way have resulted in simplifying my life significantly. Simple living is the means, freedom is the ultimate end.

Q: How would you describe your lifestyle before you made the switch to simple living?

A: I was never really a rampant consumerist. I never had huge debts on credit cards from buying into the latest gadgets and fashions. I’d been pretty prudent on leaving college. I owned my own house within a couple of years with a small mortgage. I’d actually lived a simple life at that point. I guess after my marriage and the kids came it was a case of “doing the best for my family”. It turned out I was actually doing the worst thing for my family. I was locked into a way of life that people seem to think is “normal.” I was working long hours, traveling, and taking on large mortgage commitments to get a bigger and better house. I was killing myself in a job I didn’t like because “that’s what Dads do.”

Q: Have you faced any personal barriers to living a minimalist lifestyle?

A: Good question. If I’m honest I’d have to say I was reluctant to get back into a relationship. You do lose a significant amount of freedom by being in a relationship. It’s why many of the successful minimalists out there are living the single life. It’s hard to give up that freedom. In a relationship there’s always someone else to consider, which does clip your wings on occasion. Giving up that delicious sense of freedom with no ties is hard to do. But you do get back so much too from being in a loving relationship and being able to share life with someone.

Fear is another biggie. Lots of people shy away from change because of fear of the unknown, fear of what people might say, or 101 other fears. I don’t really have too much advice on this other than “just do it”. My life coach friend Tim Brownson tells me telling clients to “just do it” can make them lock up, so my advice might not be that useful.

 

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Q: How have your friends and family taken your decision to follow the path of simplicity?

A: Mostly they’ve been supportive. Some have even realized it’s a great way of life and have changed their lives accordingly. One friend went from being heavily in debt on credit cards to being debt free in a year or so, and hasn’t looked back. Others will have to suffer a bit more first before they see the light unfortunately.

I remember when I returned from a great diving trip in Malaysia, some friends commented “oh we thought you were frugal?”. They don’t get it. I was only able to live that lifestyle because I was frugal. By not buying things I didn’t need, I was able to spend the money on things that kept me sane and enriched my life.

Q: Knowing what you know now, what advice do you have for beginners who are interested in possibly living a minimalist lifestyle but who haven’t taken the plunge yet?

A: The first advice I would give someone is know yourself, and be true to yourself. This is fundamental. So many people are living a lie. I know I was. Understand who you are, and what you want out of life, independent of other people’s expectations. Everyone wants you to be who they want you to be. You need to be yourself.

Having said that, I think there are great benefits to be had from simplifying your life. You can start by making small changes. Simplify your finances, spend less, save more, simplify your diet, make health a greater priority. The great thing about simplifying your life is, well, it’s simple. You don’t need to know much, you can start simplifying today. Yes, you can read books and blogs and so on, but at some point you need to actually start *doing* things differently. Start small and build up is my advice.

 

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Q: What do you like the best about blogging about your own experiences with simple living/minimalism at Regards From the Balcony?

A: I love the process of blogging. I love collecting my thoughts, shaping the outline of an article, and putting “pen to paper”. I just love writing. I love reading reader’s comments and getting feedback on my articles. With blogging you can feel like you are putting content out there into a vacuum, it’s nice to know people are actually reading this stuff. In addition to my blog, I write about Thailand and have done since 2003. Writing is a great outlet for me. I hope that what I write about proves useful to other people. I’ve also met some really cool people online through blogging.

Q: Standing where you are currently, where do you hope to go from here using a minimalist path?

A: I would really like to go car-free. Right now that’s my number one priority. I am very car-lite at this point, but I would dearly love to get rid of the car altogether for a host of reasons. I’m not quite there yet. I’m also considering downsizing. I live in a two-bed house which I like, but it’s probably too big for me, now that the kids don’t stay here as much as they used to.

I see life opening up a lot more in 2012 for various reasons. I will be mortgage free at that point, if not before, and have substantial savings. My daughter will be going to university. I think traveling more widely will be high on the agenda, at least for a few years. There are still many places I’d like to visit in SE Asia. I’d like to return to Japan too and spend a year or so learning the language and culture. I’d like to spend a year on a tropical island. I penciled in Koh Lanta in Thailand for that role, I visited there some years ago now and fell in love with the place. But I’m visiting the Philippines next year and that may change my mind with regards location. I have an almost infinite list of things I’d like to do before I die. It’s far more than you could squeeze into any one life.

So far, I’ve been incredibly lucky with my life and I try to be grateful for what I’ve been blessed with.

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